well....yesterdae i was talking to shijing bout something...and when she said something to me, i knew she ment well....but i just felt so strongly bout this tat i kind of just hit back out at her...=P i'm so sorrie shijing!!! sorrie sorriee!!..=P just that i kind of feel that our friend deserves more than that...more then just hounding for tithing, cg attendence and sv attendence..i mean...is that what cg is all about~? =P *haIx*~...its like....sometimes i just feel that we get too carried away by our duties that we forget the main purpose of all of them~.....that is loVe! yAaa...its like yes, if a bro or sister dosn't pay tithe and dosn't come to church..we have every right to ask them to do so......but for what reason~? that's the most impt thing..! isit just to make up the statistics and numbers or isit because we reallie love them and that they're part of the family~? *haix*~..it should always be for the 2nd reason~~...and i've seen many close friends of mine leave church because some individuals get so carried away by the duties that they forget all bout the heart aspect of it~~..i don't wish to see this friend of mine leave..i reallie don't! so Lord..please help straighten everything out Lord....let both parties be able to work things out toO~~..take over Jesus~~....yeah...reallie hope everything'll be settled soon..take care peeps~ God blEss..