this is reality..

among school mates, among colleagues, among friends.. and *gasp* among church friends as well. :( It's happened so many times, and its funny how everyone seems to get along when they face each other, only for all the knives to be out when the other party's out of sight.

all of us are guilty of this to some degree, it's painful to watch when others are doing it, yet unknowingly, we fall into the trap of doing it ourselves too. But yet, where do we draw the line? when we're hurt, and we want someone to share our feelings to, how should we say things truthfully and honestly, without back stabbing others?

i guess, staying objective, and telling the truth in humility is the key.. its not as easy as it sounds though.